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Halloween week and the red-blood-cell scare

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Horror films with homicidal clowns and chainsaw-wielding serial killers define Halloween for most. But for me, with my health issues, little is more frightening than an abnormal medical test: This week, red blood cells showed up in my urine.

What exactly this means is any doctor’s educated guess. The urologist ordered ultrasounds of my kidneys and testicles, but since I have to wait a week for them, I’m obviously not dying. He also wants to shove a catheter up my urethra with a camera to check my bladder. Fuck that.

Best case scenario, red blood cells in my urine are just that. Maybe I worked out too hard Monday night before the test. Maybe my prostatitis from three years ago flared up.

Worst case scenario, I have kidney disease or cancer. I’m trying not to focus on this because I’ve had my blood tested so many times the last year, doctors would have likely seen something earlier.

Waiting, yet again

Nonetheless, waiting for test results, yet again, sucks. My heart pounds. My mind wanders. My own House episode continues.

I wonder what a couple tests mean for the rest of my life. Is my autoimmune condition destroying my kidneys? Are my medications to treat it affecting my kidney or bladder function? Is this just a fleeting result with little consequence after this week ends? Is my anxiety for naught?

Yet again, I wrestle with existence, with the purpose of life amid a universe that so often seems to bring only suffering. Sure, I’m not alone. I have coworkers with their own autoimmune conditions. I have Facebook buddies with diseases rarer than my own. I even have a good friend struggling with a much more daunting medical issue and awaiting his own prognosis this week. Clearly, the universe does not discriminate.

But are we, as humans, really meant only to survive? What of happiness? Can we really ever flourish when each day brings a new anxiety of its own, when life becomes a series of test results and visits to specialist after specialist, each one delivering another worry, another reason to fret?

Ancient wisdom for the diagnostic life

Western religions teach us not to worry. Christ tends to his flock. Yahweh watches his people. Allah blesses those who believe. Good triumphs over evil. God provides. But what comfort is heaven when you’re trapped in diagnostic purgatory, hoping you don’t end up in oncological hell?

The Stoics teach us to seize the day as it comes, to immerse ourselves in the moment.

“True happiness,” writes Seneca, “is to enjoy the present without anxious dependence upon the future, not to amuse ourselves with either hopes or fears but to rest satisfied, for he that is wants nothing.”

Such advice is all fine and well for the healthy, even for the unhappy or the unemployed. But those ancient words ring hollow when “he that is” cannot be.

The spirituality and sensitivity of broken skin

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I look at the rashes covering my skin. I wonder if people notice, if the woman looking at me at the gym thinks I’m cute or just some monster.

Is God punishing me? Mocking me? Testing my faith? Has the devil come to collect the bill for the body I sold to keep my soul? Has Anubis weighed my heart against a feather and sentenced me to a watery, crocodilian hell?

Am I an evolutionary accident, some creature that should never have survived infancy, some being that should not be? Of the 20,000 genes in my body, should a single mutation change render me less than human?

Most people ask if I’m sunburned. I try to be polite, but how do I explain autoimmunity to the grandmother at the dermatology clinic, to the child at the store?

Before my first visit to the dermatologist two months ago, the rashes itched and burned so horribly I could not sleep—even with two antihistamines and melatonin. I could not sit in my own home with the fan on because the moving air scratched and irritated my skin. I hid under blankets to relieve the pain.

I’ve never been more thankful for prednisone.

The Hebrew Bible refers to skin diseases as tsara’at—meaning to be thrown down or humiliated. Those afflicted with these conditions were considered ritually impure; presumably, their disease was God punishing them for behaving immoral.

The Bible is not alone in its discussions of skin diseases nor are the Jews unique in their treatment of persons with them. As Philip D Shenefelt and Debrah A Shenefelt point out, across cultures, humans feel a spiritual connection with our largest organ, perhaps because it is the part of us most visible, and “persons with visible skin disorders have often been stigmatized or even treated as outcasts.”

Though we understand more than ever about skin diseases, though modern persons are not ostracized or forced to shout “unclean” as they walk down the street, I often still feel judged—even if the only one judging is the person looking back at me in the mirror.

Since being treated with corticosteroids, my symptoms have improved. My face is mostly clear, save for my Rudolph nose. The itching and burning is a fraction of what it was. I sleep better. I walk taller.

And hopefully, in time, my doctors and I will find a treatment to make my skin look new. In time, I will again feel human.